Are daughters being mercy??

                                             Yes! Daughters are mercy. The rights given to daughter by Islam are not given by any other religion. from the tail of the daughter there is splendor in house.

Being the eldest daughter I will tell you about the importance of elder daughter. what is the importance of elder daughter and how siblings respect her? How they feel jealous and quarrel with sister? But the most important thing is how they love with sister? What are the feeling of elder daughter about parents and her siblings?

Elder daughters are responsible, dutiful, thoughtful, expeditiously and caring. Firstborns are intelligent and loves her parents more than other siblings.  she is More proficient, verbally and more motivated to perform. Elder daughter starts taking care of her parents and adds so much love and joy to their lives. More than siblings she becomes their friend.

 Parents love her elder daughter and give extra attention. being a daughter I am very close to my mother. The best friend in this world is your mother. if you want to get best solution of any problem then you should share with parents. because I have already experienced that no one is your best companion more than your parents. recently I was very nervous about my presentation. My mom encouraged me and tells me best solution.

 Here are some Advantages and Disadvantages for you to go through!

 

Advantages



1. You are in Authority!

Being older than someone automatically makes you authorized to command or instruct. Similarly, you can order your younger brother or sister and they have no choice but to obey! This advantage comes into proper existence when your parents are out for work and your younger sibling is at home with you

2. Advisor:

You are the elder one to your sister and naturally, you can give her advice. Be it studies or be it relationships, you are completely eligible to guide her to the best path! You will have the most recent experience as compared to your parents, which is one of the many advantages, so your perception about certain things might actually be of great help!

3. Freedom:

As far as freedom is concerned, you definitely enjoy that much earlier than your younger sibling. You can roam around with your friends and party late night or show off your new bike to your brother. You are elder and you get all such stuff earlier than him! It is obvious that you get to do things first, be it your first bike ride or first holiday trip with friends!

4. You are The Role Model for them:

With your experience and that extra bit of knowledge, you can give suggestions to your younger sibling. And what generally happens with this is that they look forward to you and your kind of become their role model! Knowing this feeling of someone looking up to you makes you feel better! It makes us more cautious and hence more responsible.

5. More Chance of You Being Successful

This could be so, maybe because normally parents have more time(comparatively) to devote to the first child because you were their only child for a time. A study earlier this year from the University of Essex, says that you are more likely to succeed if you are the first-born. As a matter of fact, more than half of all US Presidents and Nobel Prize winners have been the eldest child in their respective families. Even if we don’t take it as a hard and fast rule, we cannot deny the positive direction of being the ‘ELDEST’ child in the family.

 

Let us explore some of the disadvantages of being the eldest sibling:

1.Being Scolded for every second thing!

One of the most common backdrops of being the eldest sibling is that it is always you who gets all the scolding’s from your parents even when the younger one is the culprit. Irritating… Augh!

2. Free Babysitter

You are always supposed to take care and stay with your little brother/sister if they aren’t that little to stay by themselves! There are times when plans are cancelled just because there has to be someone to stay at home with your little sister/brother. Their cranky behavior is complimentary here!

3. Extra Pressure

We all are familiar with that everyone says, that your younger siblings will follow your footsteps. This leads to that extra pressure which builds in one’s hand. When your life is so demanding and you have so much to do ahead, being the eldest sibling in the house puts that extra bit of responsibility on your already heavy shoulders. You got to look after them and take care as if you are their deputy parents!

4. HOMEWORK:

One of the silliest disadvantages of having a younger sibling is that you have to do their homework and projects as well. Imagine you are stuck up with your assignment and your mom asks you to look after your sister’s project… Trouble!

5. NO LIMELIGHT:

It’s so common and obvious that it is the younger children who get the majority of care, attention and limelight as we call it. As we grow older, the attention gets divided, this is inevitable. They are the ones who are supposed to be much more pampered than us. And sometimes it can make you feel left out!

               But I feel every likely and proud because I am an elder in them.