Why cousins are so important?
What do you mean relatives?
The stylish thing
about cousins is that you no way dissociate with them. conversations come
naturally indeed if you have met after weeks, months or indeed times. You pick
up a discussion as if you had only talked a little while agony You talk
spontaneously about common interests, your recent conditioning or important
news about the family without any awkward moments.
A relationship with no match
Occasionally cousins are like siblings, occasionally like musketeers and utmost of the
times, they're someone in between these two. And yes, they can be strong
challengers and in extreme cases foes too! But most important of all, they
partake common strain and history. Whatever the status of our bond with them
may be, they're an ineluctable part of our lives, adding all the flavors of
spice to it and making it more pleasurable.
Celebrating the unique bond participated by cousins
Cousins may be not as important a part of
our lives as siblings are, but the knowledge that we can connect with them as
much as and whenever we want to, brings them near to us. We can freely bandy
our problems with them (without the fear of being reported to an elder) as they
will always advance a sympathetic observance and are ready with some good
advice.
With a stock you
don't have a choice. Accept them as they're your only option. We live day in
and day out with them, participating strong ties of love, care and immolation.
But at times it can be a bumpy relationship where your fast musketeers one
moment and fierce foes the veritably coming. Although artificially we're always
ready to help and defend siblings against all odds, we also fight and argue on
petty issues.
With relatives the
script is completely different. Your likes, interests and preferences match
with some of them and you may not look eye to eye with others. This explosively
defines how close you're to them or the bond of fellowship you partake with
them. This factor also explosively affects the quantum of time or conditioning
you partake with them.
Cherish your cousins, they will be one of the sincerest musketeers you can ever have and the bond with them would not get weak with time and distance You can always be yourself and feel comfortable when relatives are around, because you no way feel the need to impress them with your aesthetics, dressings or studies.
The relationship with cousins keeps changing with time and age, and can be strange in numerous ways. We grow up together playing weird games, getting in and out of trouble due to our silly miscalculations and capers, participating and fiercely guarding secrets, and loving each other with all our good and bad traits.But we've differences as well! We can be arch rivals as we strive to contend with them in all walks of life, ranging from getting further significance from elders to performing better at studies.
Relatives of all periods
The age factor also
explosively affects the kind of relationship you have with a kinsman. You turn
to the aged bones for help when you're stuck in a problem, pamper and snuggle
the youngish bones and make a continuance bond of fellowship with those who
match your age group. manna’s of
participating and minding
Relatives are substantiation to our achievements and failures. Always quick to encourage and assure, they will celebrate with you in happy moments and advance a shoulder to cry on in sad bones With them you partake common family tragedies and take pride in the accomplishments of members.
No family gathering
is complete without relatives. Whenever you're invited by an uncle or aunt, you
incontinently ask if so and so (one of your favorite relatives) is coming. It
may be playing in- door or out-of-door games, laughing till your stomach pangs
at commodity entertaining you witnessed or just doing small talk, relatives
always make attending a family gathering worth your time.
At marriages or larger gatherings, you find it veritably natural to sit in a group, participating a common table, where you can crack jokes, share intriguing gests from your common history, pass reflections on other guests or just partake what you have been doing lately.
When we're growing up, we take relatives for granted. Playing capriccios at each other, participating family jokes and laughing at them till gashes roll out of our eyes, planning and enjoying get- together and overnight stays at our grandparents, enjoying grandma’s cuisine and grandpa’s stories of his youth, we spend quality time together which at that stage of life seems to be endless.
Like all good effects, this memorable phase of life canvases by with the passage of time. As times slip by and we enter majority, the nonage recollections of the time we spent with relatives are frequently the most favored bones in our treasure box of recollections.
I belong to a large family and frequently partake with my grandchildren intriguing occurrences from my nonage days. We were a big (and mischievous) lot and fell into different groups according to our periods. And each group looked up to the elderly bones
with respect and
admiration, as we considered them more educated, learned and wiser than us.
Whenever I had a quarrel with a kinsman, I flash back turning to our eldest
kinsman for arbitration, and her word was the final bone
As there was no question of an argument!
Family jokes,
incidents which I would not like to partake with everyone, the time I spent
with relatives at our grandparents’ place, or the recesses which we enjoyed
together, are each important plum in my casket of recollections. At the
twilight of life, I frequently look back on those moments and cherish them
fondly.
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